Today, 18 September 2025, is our 60th Wedding Anniversary.
I'm happy to say that our marriage is a covenantal relationship, rather than a contractual relationship.
I would describe (not define) a covenantal relationship as: for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish; from this day forward until death do us part. (Yeah, all of that. There is much sacrifice and forgiveness in a good marriage, but it is worth it. And there is also much joy and celebration, too. Remember, sometimes you are the one being forgiven! We are all imperfect people.)
I would describe (not define) a contractual relationship as one which can be terminated for poor performance.
The Lord Jesus established a covenantal relationship with both of us (saved us) and empowered us to maintain this covenantal relationship that binds Helen and me together. For this we are most grateful.
Well, what do we have with this covenantal relationship? We have a relationship where Helen and I still love each other. And we even like each other! We also have a wonderful family who still loves us. For both of these we are most grateful to the Lord Jesus for His faithfulness in enabling us to keep going and not give up!
And you can too, with His enabling power! Ask Him to intervene, and save your marriage by His grace!
Larry Carroll